I HAVE LEARNED

Words of wisdom:  I've learned that ......

I've learned that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them.

I've learned that no matter how much I care, some people just don't care back

I've learned that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it.

I've learned that it's not what you have in your life, but who you have in your life that counts.

I've learned that you can get by on charm for about 15 minutes. After that, you'd better know something.

I've learned that you shouldn't compare yourself to the best others can do, but to the best you can do.

I've learned that it's not what happens to people that's important. It's what they do about it.

I've learned that it's taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.

I've learned that it's a lot easier to react than it is to think.

I've learned that you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them.

I've learned that you can keep going long after you think you can't.

I've learned that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.

I've learned that either you control your attitude or it controls you.

I've learned that regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at first, the passion fades and there had better be something else to take its place. (Amen to that!)

I've learned that heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.

I've learned that learning to forgive takes practice.

I've learned that there are people who love you dearly, but just don't know how to show it.

I've learned that money is a lousy way of keeping score.

I've learned that my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time.

I've learned that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you're down will be the ones to help you get back up.

I've learned that I'm getting more and more like my grandma, and I'm kinda happy about it.

I've learned that sometimes when I'm angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.

I've learned that true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance. Same goes for true love.

I've learned that just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.

I've learned that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had and what you've learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you've celebrated.

I've learned that you should never tell a child her dreams are unlikely or outlandish. Few things are more humiliating, and what a tragedy it would be if she believed it

I've learned that your family won't always be there for you. It may seem funny, but people you aren't related to can take care of you and love you and teach you to trust people again. Families aren't biological.
I've learned that no matter how good a friend someone is, they're going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.

I've learned that it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.

I've learned that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn't stop for your grief.

I've learned that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.

I've learned that sometimes when my friends fight, I'm forced to choose sides even when I don't want to.

I've learned that just because two people argue, it doesn't mean they don't love each other. And just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do.

I've learned that sometimes you have to put the individual ahead of their actions.

I've learned that we don't have to change friends if we understand that friends change.

I've learned that if you don't want to forget something, stick it in your underwear drawer.

I've learned that you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your life forever.

I've learned that the clothes I like best are the ones with the most holes in them.

I've learned that two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different.

I've learned that no matter how you try to protect your children, they will eventually get hurt and you will hurt in the process.

I've learned that there are many ways of falling and staying in love.

I've learned that no matter the consequences, those who are honest with themselves, get farther in life.

I've learned that many things can be powered by the mind, the trick is self-control.

I've learned that no matter how many friends you have, if you are their pillar, you will feel lonely and lost at the times you need them most.

I've learned that your life can be changed in a matter of hours by people who don't even know you.

I've learned that even when you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries out to you, you will find the strength to help.

I've learned that writing, as well as talking, can ease emotional pains.
I've learned that the paradigm we live in is not all that is offered to us.

I've learned that credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.

I've learned that the people you care most about in life are taken from you too soon.

I've learned that although the word "love" can have many different meaning, it loses value when overly used.

I've learned that it's hard to determine where to draw the line between being nice and not hurting people's feelings and standing up for what you believe.

Author Unknown.

A STORY WITH POWERFUL MORAL

A SMALL STORY WITH POWERFUL MORAL

Read this small story; Hope that makes a BIG change in YOU
The Professor began his class by holding up a glass with some water in it. He held it up for all to see & asked the students “How much do you think this glass weighs?”
’50gms!’….. ’100gms!’ …..’125 gms’ …the students answered.
“I really don’t know unless I weigh it,” said the professor, “but, my question is:
What would happen if I held it up like this for a few minutes?”
‘Nothing’ …..the students said.
‘Ok what would happen if I held it up like this for an hour?’ the professor asked.
‘Your arm would begin to ache’ said one of the student
“You’re right, now what would happen if I held it for a day?”
“Your arm could go numb; you might have severe muscle stress & paralysis & have to go to hospital for sure!”
….. Ventured another student & all the students laughed
“Very good.
But during all this, did the weight of the glass change?” Asked the professor.
‘No’…. Was the answer.
“Then what caused the arm ache & the muscle stress?”
The students were puzzled.
“What should I do now to come out of pain?” asked professor again.
“Put the glass down!” said one of the students
“Exactly!” said the professor.
Life’s problems are something like this.
Hold it for a few minutes in your head & they seem OK.
Think of them for a long time & they begin to ache.
Hold it even longer & they begin to paralyze you. You will not be able to do anything.
It’s important to think of the challenges or problems in your life, But EVEN MORE IMPORTANT is to ‘PUT THEM DOWN’ at the end of every day before you go to sleep…
That way, you are not stressed, you wake up every day fresh &strong & can handle any issue, any challenge that comes your way!

So, when you start your day today, Remember friend to ‘PUT THE GLASS DOWN TODAY! ‘

ATTACK ON SOMNATH TEMPLE

Moghul attacks on somnath temple at Gujarat

Muslim invaders and rulers destroyed over 10,000 Hindu temples over the 
centuries. Perhaps none was destroyed as many times, and rebuilt as many 
times, as Somnath. The destruction of Somnath by Mahmud Ghazni is well 
known. Here is a list of the lesser known destructions of Somnath. Each 
time, the temple was rebuilt by Hindus, often accompanied by great loss to 
Hindu life. Somnath is the symbol of Hindu defiance and resilience in the 
face of barbaric assault that would have (and did) bury most other 
civilizations. 

1. The first temple of Somnath is said to have existed before the beginning 
of the Common Era. 

2. The second temple, built by the Maitraka kings of Vallabhi in Gujarat, 
replaced the first one on the same site around 649AD. In 725AD Junayad, the 
Arab governor of Sind, sent his armies to destroy the second temple. This 
was destruction No. 1. 

3. The Pratihara king Nagabhata II constructed the third temple in 815AD, a 
large structure of red sandstone. In 1024AD, Mahmud Ghazni raided the temple 
from across the Thar Desert. During his campaign, Mahmud was challenged by 
Ghogha Rana, who at the ripe age of 90, sacrificed his own clan fighting 
against this Islamic warrior. The temple and citadel were ransacked, and 
more than 50,000 defenders were massacred. Mahmud personally hammered the 
temple's gilded lingam to pieces and the stone fragments were carted back to 
Ghazni, where they were incorporated into the steps of the city's new Jamiah 
Masjid (Friday mosque). This was destruction No. 2. 

4. The fourth temple was built by the Paramara King Bhoj of Malwa and the 
Solanki king Bhima of Gujarat (Anhilwara) or Patan between 1026AD and 
1042AD. The wooden structure was replaced by Kumarpal who built the temple 
of stone. 

5. The temple was razed again in 1297AD when the Sultanate of Delhi 
conquered Gujarat, and again in 1395AD, and once more in 1401AD (please see 
quote at end of this article). These were destructions No 3, 4, and 5. 

6. The last destruction of Somnath was by the last Mughal Emperor Aurangzeb 
in 1706AD, just a year before his death. This was destruction No. 6. 

Sardar Vallabhbhai Patel, then Home Minister & the first Deputy Prime 
Minister of India took a pledge on November 13, 1947 for Somnath's 
reconstruction for the seventh time. A mosque present at that site was 
shifted few miles away. The construction was completed on December 1, 1995 
and the then President of India, Dr. Shankar Dayal Sharma dedicated it in 
the service of the nation. The present temple was built by the Shri Somnath 
Trust which looks after the Shri Somnath temple complex. 

I end with the description of Muzaffar Khan's destruction of Somnath, taken 
from M. M. Syed's "History of the Delhi sultanate", pp. 184: 

"Next year, in 1395, Muzaffar Khan invaded Somnath, burnt the temple, and 
destroyed the idol. He killed many hindus, and left the place after 
arranging 
for the erection of a mosque. In 1401, news reached him that the hindus were 
trying to restore the temple of somnath, and revive their customary worship. 
Muzaffar immedaitely proceeded thither with an army, and the Hindus, 
defeated 
after a sharp encounter, retired to the fort of the lop. This fort also fell 
after a few days of fighting, and Muzaffar killed the entire garrison, and 
had 
the men trampled under the feet of elephants. He then demolished the temples 
and 
laid the foundations of a mosque." 

From the above history it seems that almost all the muslim king has  attacked

The hindu temples and most of the temple were converted into mosques . But babar majid was demolished by hindu and almost all the political parties  are

Projecting it as a major issue for getting their votes . Actually tombs stone of muslim emperor like ,Kajini ,Ibrahim Lodhi and aurangazeb should be evacuvated from the indian soil and shifted to Afkanistan or any other

Muslim countries

SOURCES :_ WEB NEWS

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A HEART TOUCHING MORAL STORY

A HEART TOUCHING MORAL STORY

Please take few seconds to Read this story.. It’s Worth..

A 24 year old boy seeing out from the train’s window shouted…
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“Dad, look the trees are going behind!”
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Dad smiled and a young couple sitting nearby, looked at the 24 year old’s childish behavior with pity, suddenly he again exclaimed…
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“Dad, look the clouds are running with us!”
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The couple couldn’t resist and said to the old man…
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“Why don’t you take your son to a good doctor?”
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The old man smiled and said…
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“I did and we are just coming from the hospital, my son was blind from birth, he just got his eyes today.”
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MORAL……….
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Every single person on the planet has a story. Don’t judge people before you truly know them. The truth might surprise you.

Sources :- web

FRIENDSHIP ND THE LOVE

• Love starts with a smile, grows with a kiss, and ends with a tear.
• Don't cry over anyone who won't cry over you.
• Good friends are hard to find, harder to leave, and impossible to forget.
• You can only go as far as you push.
• Actions speak louder than words.
• The hardest thing to do is watch the one you love, love somebody else.
• Don't let the past hold you back; you're missing the good stuff.
• Life's short. If you don't look around once in a while, you might miss it.
• A best friend is like a four leaf clover: hard to find and lucky to have.
• If you think that the world means nothing, think again. You might mean the world to someone else. 
• When it hurts to look back, and you're scared to look ahead, you can look beside you and your best friend will be there
• True friendship never ends.
• Friends are forever.
• Good friends are like stars....You don't always see them, but you know they are always there.
• Don't frown. You never know who is falling in love with your smile.
• What do you do when the only person who can make you stop crying is the person who made you cry?
• NOBODY IS PERFECT UNTIL YOU FALL IN LOVE WITH THEM. (Isn't that the truth?)
• Everything is okay in the end. If it's not okay, then it's not the end.
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MAHESH AND HIS EGO

In the Wimbledon tennis match Mahesh Boopathi and Sania Mizra pair has been defeated miserably , it is a great blow  to the egoistic Mahesh Boopathy  and who thinks too much of him and refused to play with the  great player Paes  who is actually a better player in singles as well as in doubles than Bhoopathy . when playing for the country one should forget about the personal differences and grudges . It certainly requires good sportsman spirit and in which bhoopathy is lagging behind . The similar fate the pair Rohan Bopanna and Mahesh bhoopathty is going to have in Olympic  also because there is no

History that an egoist has won in any match . At the same time Peas will definitely bring  Honour  to this country for his calm and magnanimous attitude  

YOUNGER GENERATION AND THEIR IQ

YOUNGER GENERATIONS ARE MORE INTELLIGENT THAN US

A father was reading a magazine and his little daughter every now and then distracted him.
Trying to keep her busy, he tore out one page on which was printed the map of the world. He then tore the page into pieces and asked her to go to her room and put them together to make the map again.
He was sure she would take the whole day to get it done. But the little one came back within minutes with the perfect map…
When he asked how she could do it so quickly, she said, “Oh… Dad, there is a man’s face on the other side of the paper… I made the face perfect to get the map right.” She ran outside to play leaving the father surprised.

MORAL: Don’t under estimate  younger generation

Courtesy :- from web